The BRUTAL Truth About The People Around You When You Found Out That You Have Been Cheated Upon - Part I

This post is dedicated to my shitty SISTER IN LAW, aka His SISTER.

Life is a really funny thing...you can try your best in everything...and yet IT STILL SHITS ON YOU. PERIOD.

The day I found out that He was cheating on me with Her..is also the day when our family's and friends' true colors shone through.

You think that being cheated upon is the most awful thing? Why don't you wait for the inevitable fallout from both the families and friends when they started to take sides? It is pretty spectacular! 

Last week was the start of the "hungry-ghost"month. It is the month when the Chinese starts to  worship gods and pray for their spirits of ancestors. His sister, who is my sister-in-law, was telling Him how concerned she is, that their cousin is making plans to marry. My sister-in-law also added that their Cousin's elder sister is also not very pleased with the Cousin's poor choice of wife since the girlfriend is very promiscuous.

Putting a grand display of Anti-Promiscuity

I am simply astonished by her blatant display of contempt for their Cousin's soon-to-be wife and choice of words. To me, even if they are really sleeping together before they are married, they did not sleep around with other people!

My sister-in-law eagerness to show her disdain for the other women is laughable and down-right stupid.

Why?

I always believe that whatever bull-shit that you boast about yourself is only valid when you demonstrated how you conducted yourself through the times of crisis.

More than a decade back, my "morally right" sister-in-law was against me for disallowing her BEST friend (His Ex) to remain as "close buddies" with my silly man.

The Ex was messaging Him how much she loved and still missed Him during my early stages of relationship with Him. Furthermore, the Ex was supposed to get married to a very eligible rich BF in a few months' time. When I found out and insisted Him to break off all contact, my sister-in-law  intervened openly showed her displeasure and accused me of being terribly selfish.

This is despite my "morally right" sister-in-law knew that her BEST friend have been sleeping around with random guys at the clubs when she was my silly man's GF. Later, the Ex dumped Him after she found an excellent catch, a rich bachelor and proposed to marry asap. The best part? My silly man is the last to know.

Yet today, my "morally right" sister-in-law is still leaving messages such as "I always admire you, you are always my model!" (for what? Sleeping around?!) "We are always best friends" on her very promiscuous BEST friend's (His Ex) Facebook.

Not to forget, my "morally right" sister-in-law, who is supposedly allergic to promiscuous women was in full support of her brother, my silly man's choice of a mistress. Someone whose hobby is to hook up with married men. My "mortally right" sister-in-law told Him that whatever decision He made, she will SUPPORT him to the fullest. She will welcome His new wife with OPEN ARMS. That was during the period when He was considering whether to divorce me, against His family's wishes.

Yup, my "morally right" sister-in-law do not mind having Her, the promiscuous mistresses of many married men, to be her new sister-in-law!

"Mortally Flexible" should be more like it.

The extremely "mortally-flexible" sister-in-law of mine does not feel ashamed nor embarrassed that she was quick to dismiss me when His family expressed the need for Her to stand up to support me, that I needed her help, and not the mistress. Yes,  "mortally-flexible" sister-in-law of mine is still asking me for help even until today.

"Pui! Pui! Pui!"  "You are the bloody reason why disgusting mistresses like Her thrive. You should pray that the same type of mistress didn't wreck your marriage, you  f*ckimg hypocrite!" 

So here you are; my double faced, disgusting and hypocrite sister-in-law. Don't pity me, I am not surprised. Seeing how fucked up His mind is, I am not at least surprised that His sister's bird brain is as rotten as His!